## ONLINE DATING PROFILES and STRIKING Similarities with Sales Marketing
Lifestyle BLOG posting from a couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and FORMER PROFESSIONAL DATING COACH.
We have written some blog posts truly hoping make this community a better place through teaching others how to offer quality communication, interaction, and increasing the skills necessary be successful by creating a quality profile to help meet more people.
This post will be helpful for all members’ couples, single women and men who are trying meet others using ONLINE dating platforms or any dating App.
Most people start a membership on any site hoping to get connected with people in a few days not realizing they have no plan for marketing themselves.
Sadly most will QUIT or deactivate profile in a few months not knowing what went wrong and feeling that ONLINE DATING is useless and unsuccessful.
We have seen 10’s OF THOUSANDS of members QUIT over the last 10 years DUE to NOT meeting anyone.
IT ALL STARTS WITH YOUR PROFILE, this is YOUR MARKETING TOOL.
Like the Cliché if you HAVE NO PLAN, you have PLANNED TO FAIL!
Online platforms whether sexually oriented or not, are more MARKETING oriented than you might think.
Most members post a torso pic, dick pic, boob photo or some other non-descript pic that does not show well, and even worse, no profile description or information for the reader to determine if there is a good match or if there is potential to move forward with that person to meet. In other words an EMPTY, MEANINGLESS PROFILE.
Think about it this way:
When you go shopping for say; a box of cereal, there are HUNDREDS of different brands available on the shelf.
Would you choose to purchase the cereal brand that has a poor photo or NO PHOTO, NO ingredients information, and NO information on the company?
Would you choose to go to a restaurant to eat if it had no pics, no description and no detail on what type of food or ambiance it offered?
We think almost 100% the answer would be NO, NO, and NO!
When you are creating a profile, you should know, you are in competition with literally MILLIONS of other profiles in a geographic area for member’s attention.
No quality pics and no description will place you at a MARKETING disadvantage!
Everyone one else that has spent the time, effort and thought CRAFTING a quality profile which markets their personality, attractiveness and lifestyle direction accurately, packaged with a certain level of exciting details and pictures that makes members want to READ and meet the person who created the profile will be more successful.It’s exactly how we shop for products and has a striking similarity on how we choose which people to meet using online platforms.
All of the skills you use choose to find the right car, right house, right restaurant go and eat , should be the skills you use create a successful profile.
When you are looking to CHOOSE something, you are drawn certain things: let’s take a car for example.
Use quality photos to show personality, action sports, music, art, interest you may have, sexy well-dressed photos for men and women to garner attention and interest.
NOT a selfie in the bathroom with a toilet in the background, mundane DICK pic with your sweat pants pulled down, or the usual, absolutely no photo at all?
Think about it. When was last time you went a bar, pulled your pants down said HEY ARE YOU INTERESTED (which is a common online dating message) and then got a date? Have you had any success meeting WOMEN WITH A BAG OVER YOUR FACE IN REAL LIFE?
Or the usual photos in a bedroom with an array of unkempt clothing, food articles and SHIT lying all over the place.
There are MILLIONS of profiles that truly have NO VALUE to their profile yet expect to meet people and get frustrated when they don’t.
It helps to know that sexually based website or not; there are many common things we do every day in our lives to make choices yet here, most completely disregard them in favor of meaningless pics and no description profiles, thinking it will work.
THIS IS NOT HOW MEN OR WOMEN PSYCHOLOGICALLY CHOOSE TO MEET OTHER PEOPLE, or spend time to choose or see a product.
THE PRODUCT in this case, IS YOUR PROFILE PAGE AND HOW YOU REPRESENT YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
YES there will be a few people as a minority and rare occasion who will choose to meet you from a ONE sentence profile and non-descript pic , but this is not usually successful.
If you don't spend time on quality pics, something EXCITING and VALUABLE to introduce yourself , why would anyone want or feel enticed meet you?
You have already set yourself up for failure.
Its amazing to us that we get messages everyday by people that want to meet but have NO profile pic, no description, no value, or just a nude bathroom selfie pic of dick, close up of boob-or NO PIC AT ALL. Its just not a reliable way choose meet.
Yet they ask: Are you interested? Interested in what, a DICK?
WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED IN ANYTHING YOU CAN’T SEE, READ ABOUT OR HAVE ANY INFORMATION AT ALL?
In todays hyper availability of information we see more than half of the profiles out there with NOTHING in them.
Taking the time learn the process on how humans make choices, certain marketing strategies and using them in your own profile will be more than POWERFUL in making you successful here.
It just takes a little more thought, effort and time.
There are 2 groups here in our opinion
SWING SITES often ADVERTISE as SEX sites this is NOT accurate at all.
SEX site is where you pay to get guaranteed sex from a sex service worker; This is a SEX DATING SITE where all natural human values of attraction and choice still exist. Even if FETISH based a GOOD MATCH must exist between the parties to want to pursue meeting and have a SUCCESSFUL situation together.
A quality profile and a LOT of effort and THOUGHT is required to make it happen as it is on any dating site or app.
GROUP 1:
People with sexual "addiction” and a "need" like a drug addiction, for sex.
Couples that are trying to fix a marital issue like erectile dysfunction or marital boredom--they usually use terms like "add spice”, explore, try new things.
Finally, people looking to sexually explore for a short time. People seeking to fill a bucket list of things to try before going back to NORMAL world. This type often has no idea what they want, what they are looking for, and never placed any real thought behind their actions other than randomly starting a profile.
GROUP 1 will often be transient and GONE/quit the site after they realize this is NOT a "sex" site as most sites advertise but rather a "SEX DATING site " and all the natural basic psychology of human attraction still exist.
It takes EFFORT and thought to truly meet and attract the right people to meet EVEN more so on a sex site than the average everyday disposable dating site like Tinder, for example
GROUP 2:
Long time veteran, experienced members, with loving, secure strong relationships that just have an open marriage agreement of some sort or ethically non monogamous...and admittedly non monogamous singles.
When you see COUPLES and singles profiles that are OLDER than 2 year, Likely GROUP 2
Guess you know which group we are.
Another issue.. INTERNET DATING has changed the INTEGRITY of human interaction. Interaction is often disposable and most are here to full fill their own agenda..
Creating a longer lasting CONNECTION of any kind is often much more difficult because most people; couples, women and men included are PUSHING their own agenda rather than focusing on truly finding the best match for their intentions and compounded difficulty when people don’t know themselves enough to communicate HONESTLY what they want or need out of the lifestyle or interaction with others.
LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS AND COMMENTS!
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