What do I do next? Is what my neighbour asked me so I brought the tale to you guys to see if you agree with my thoughts. We're a pretty straightforward couple just starting our journey through life. I'm 25, Nicky is 24. We met at uni, became bf/gf in year one and shared a room from our second year at uni. Nicky teaches and is normally home by 4.30. I'm home for three weeks and overseas for four weeks. With help (from her folks) we bought a place in need of a refurb. A family friend pretty much ripped us off and her parents rescued us by sending round a builder they use. There was nothing he couldn't do but the work took a couple of months. I was home for the first week and all was OK. When I came back he had transformed our home and sort of became a mate, albeit a lot older. I'm guessing mid-late 40s. I noticed him and Nicky were close too, the two kisses and a hug thing when she came home. I was OK with that as it was in front of me, and I'd seen him do the same to my mother in law. I did notice that she was a lot more touchy feely with me even around the builder. Gone was the kiss on the lips when she came home to be replaced with a snog in front of the builder. During my three weeks home he put up CCTV outside for me. It meant I could check up on the house when I was away. Unwanted visitors as well as to prevent theft of stuff (they were very visible cameras). So I'm back in South Africa and start noticing he's staying pretty late, not usually leaving before 8pm. I'd call her and she would almost never answer when he's there. Before I get back from overseas he finished the work. My three weeks pass and I'm off to work again. On the third day I check in around 7pm UK time. His car is there. I call Nicky no answer until after he leaves. This happens 2-3 evenings a week until on one occasion his car is in my driveway all night. I ask her about it and she's very calm, saying he asked to leave it as we're close to the train station and he went to London overnight. Four weeks later and I'm back, but a day earlier than I'd said. Instead of her collecting me I take the train home from Gatwick. I can see his car in our driveway again and anticipate catching them in bed. Southern trains being as they are we're fucking held up and on my phone I see his car leave as I get to Chichester station. I leg it home and surprise Nicky. First the house smells of sex. Nicky looks like she’s been fucked and is trying to push me away claiming she needs a shower... I push it a bit and we fuck. She's fucking foaming at the cunt. I swear she was full of cum. A faded bruise on her left tit could be from a love bite I suppose. Three weeks of sex followed. This wasn't like her, wanting it daily. She had sexy underwear too. New underwear. She had changed a lot not that I was complaining. During this break at home I added a fourth camera, this time in our bedroom, very discreet too, almost hidden by the crap we keep on the wardrobe. I taped over the red light. The three weeks continued as they started. Nicky wanted a lot of sex, and I was waking up to a blow job. Whereas before she would swallow, now she was spitting it on my chest before sucking it up and kissing me. Soon I'm on the plane back to the Middle East. The first night is quiet, although I see her playing with herself...that's what it looked like anyway. The camera sadly has no sound. The following night he's back, but as much as I keep checking the bedroom camera his car leaves. On night five it changed. My life changed really. I check at around 8 and his car is there, immediately I check the internal camera and they're fucking. Her legs wrapped round him. I pray its safe sex but at no point do I see him remove a condom. After a while his phone rings and he disappears from view of the camera only to reappear with another couple. Again much older, maybe in their 50s. The guy fucks Nicky and definitely doesn't use a condom. The lady and Nicky have 15 minutes of kissing while fingering each other, before the builder fucks the other woman. All in my fucking bed. The same couple are back twice more while I'm away. The builder is there a lot. I've spent hours wanking over them fucking. I had decided that when I'm back I will confront Nicky but things don't go to plan. She collects me from the airport with her mum so it’s not the right time. When her mum leaves she drags me upstairs and fucks me, riding my cock. As soon as I cum she is sitting on my face and I find myself eating my spunk from her before she kisses me to get some back! Each day I plan to confront her but each day the sex is too good. She's open about sex and asks me my fantasies. When I suggest an mff three way she's immediately online to find a match. So I've parked any confrontation and am enjoying the daily sex. I've a sneaky feeling the builder is fucking her mum too based on a few events and signs. Well my suggestion is she will say she is lonely if confronted and continue away from the home so fit a cam in the living room and have sound on both internal cams and dont say anything, also get her on the pill so at least no pregnancy.

Gentle reminders (so to speak) "One of the main reasons a woman prefers being involved with an attentive older man is, because they know what they want and simply are not looking for anything unstable......." As I come across 'readings' about our age differences, sharing with our members (who opt to read) are most welcome to express himself right here........women are also encouraged to share her thoughts with us What attracts an older man to a woman? But have people wondered what older men are really attracted to? Older men are all about love, trust and security. They hold a very important regard for what the future entails for them and their younger partner What makes a younger woman attracted to an older man? While there is no hard science around this, the most common reasons women seem to like older men are: They have played the field and are ready to settle down in a long-term relationship. They offer emotional maturity, as well Do girls get attracted to older guys? It is not unusual for women to get attracted to older men especially if they maintain themselves well and are successful Can a younger woman be happy with an older man? Although older men used to be viewed as sugar daddies for being involved with younger women, dating outside of one's age range is acceptable for both parties. For younger women, dating an older man can be exciting and fulfilling if they become linked with one who is with them for the right reasons Cheers to all.........Paige_One

Curious question For those younger ladies that like older men, is there a specific thing that turns you on about this?

In keeping with the overall theme of the Girls who want older Gents group......watch for some frequent posts about that very dynamic. One series of paragraphs every few days, probably so the vital activity can be both better understood as well as down right dreamy. The series of posts are more than open for discussions among our readers..... Here's our first and do take some time to digest the paragraphs. Somewhat negative however a younger woman and older gentleman, can enjoy a vivid relationship despite what anyone else may think and/or say The idea of a younger man with an older woman is harmlessly portrayed in movies like “The Graduate,” “Summer of 42,” and “The Inkwell.” In these coming-of-age tales, young men “graduate” from being nerdy, awkward or unpopular to newborn studs once they have been intimate with an older woman. But older men dating younger women are not seen in the same light. Depending on the governing state and the age difference, an older man dating a younger woman can lead to criminal prosecution. In public, older men dating younger women are subject to being ridiculed, snubbed or not taken seriously at all. At any rate, women and men alike have an opinion about how it affects them and society as a whole. After several relationships with women his own age (early-to-mid 50’s), Charles, a restaurant owner, found himself attracted to women in their 30’s. “I have had to deal with so much baggage that women my age bring to the table. It seems like I end up paying the price for every bad relationship they were in before me. The only drawback is sometimes I feel like I’m a teacher with a younger woman. I have to show her how to take care of the bills, run the house, and a lot of stuff that people her age just don’t know yet. It’s a tradeoff that I don’t mind making. An older woman would most likely be able to jump in and handle those things. But I’d rather be a teacher instead of having to deal with the baggage. I don’t see no problem with older men dating younger women. Hannah, an office assistant, only dates men who are much older than she is. “A young buck can’t do a thing for me,” she said boldly. “I’m 36 and I will not date a man under 50. I think older men are smart, romantic, and will spend more money than a younger man can. And they like younger women because the sex is better and more frequent. Sometimes I get stares from people when I’m out to dinner with an older man, and all the women act like I wanna steal their man, like their intimidated by my presence alone. I am not a home wrecker. I just prefer older men.” Hannah went on to explain how her mother, Evelyn, a retired postal worker, felt about older men dating younger women. Evelyn has been trying to convince Hannah to start aiming for men her own age so she can get married and start a family. “I keep tellin’ Hannah that I wish she would make me a grandmother sometime soon,” Evelyn said. “How is she supposed to do that if she’s with a man who already got all the children he wants to have? And every time I turn around she’s in another relationship. It might last for a year or two, but in my day we just didn’t do that sort of thing. We used to call them ‘dirty old men’ back then. I know times are different now. I just don’t want no old son-in-law.” “See, she is just old-fashioned, like all her church-going friends,” Hannah interjected. “Call it what you want, but you’re gonna grow old fast with these men old enough to be your father,” Evelyn concluded. Older men dating younger women will always be a debatable topic among those who disagree with it and those who live it. And God knows there are too many variables about age differences that would neither prove nor disprove one’s ability to be happy in this type of relationship. Logic dictates that the math speaks for itself; when an older man and a younger woman come together with a considerable age difference between them, they’re bound to get out of sync somewhere down the road. However, if those people choose to take that chance, it’s really nobody else’s business. Why do older men date younger women? In a nutshell: because they can and it’s their choice.

Survey data suggest that if a young woman is into older men, it usually comes down to one of the following reasons: check all that apply:

I would love to make my fantasies come true, I like mature men over 60, I am attracted to older men, I want to feel very sexy and be with a man for the first time

There is something very special about older men, I am not sure what or why... I guess that really does not matter, I find they are extremely arousing. I get a feeling, sensation or tingle that younger men can not give me... but that is just me

Horny Dilf in Miami. Love Daddy daughter role play.

Is this feeling normal? I've had a fantasy for years that involves a younger woman. And yes, a adult younger women. It is a bit taboo. I'm curious about the younger women and why they are drawn to older men. What happened or what is it that makes them want those older men. I would love to hear everything you have to share.

Made another young woman a believer in older gent lovers! I met a 25-year- gorgeous Korean woman visiting in DC recently. Everything started out pretty casual...I was just having a good time talking with her and making her laugh. I'm sure she initially saw me as a safe grandfatherly-type figure. At one point she stated she was just frustrated with the young men she had been dating, both in the U.S. and in Korea. They just did not seem understand what women wanted or needed, she said. Wanting understand more, I asked, "Do you mean emotionally, romantically, or sexually?" She blushed at the blunt question. I tried apologize, but she stopped . Then explained that she knew Americans can be fine with frank questions, but she was part of a first generation immigrant Korean family that was very traditional at home. She felt that she was doing better at the transition American culture, and wanted answer the question despite her blushing. "The men I have dated have not satisfied me emotionally, romantically, or sexually," she said, and went on explain in more detail what she meant. It was clear from her explanation that the young men she had dated were more interested in their own needs than in hers. I explained that I thought it was simply a question of immaturity...women tend mature at a younger age than men generally, and some men never grow up at all. However, most men do gain maturity through more life experience and maybe she should try dating men older than herself, maybe older. Then with a wicked gleam in her eye, she added, "Or maybe 25 older?" Although I thought she was just joking and teasing , I responded with "Sure, why not?" Long story shortened, she came home with me and we ended up in bed together and our story continued over the time she remained in the area. Before she left, she shared a few things with me that our relationship had taught her. She said in previous relationships it was her playful, silly side that had connected with the men in her life, but the more serious and intellectual side of her personality put them off and left her wanting more from them. The men also seemed to think than an occasional bouquet of flowers was all the romance that was required in a relationship...no handwritten love notes, no home-cooked candle-light dinners, no spontaneous foot massages. And the sex, while sometimes vigorous, rarely produced an orgasm for her. While with me, orgasms were regular and she also experienced multiple orgasms for the first time. The sex was a big surprise for her as she had bought into the stereotype of older men needing Viagra just to get an erection. At the risk of being told I'm making it up, she actually said, "I didn't know an older man could have such a good dic" LOL Anyway, I hope we will get see each other again some time. And I have more hope that there are other women out there willing try older gent lovers.