My wife and I have both been married before and in between our 1st marriages and our marriage to each other, we both had a huge sexual appetite. When we first started going out with each other, we would tell each other about some of our previous sexual encounters. She was very sexually free in between her 1st marriage and me. She told me about several guys that she hooked up with for sex, some were even married men that she met on Ashley Madison. She would usually meet them during the day, maybe on their lunch break and fuck them. I have to admit that if all her stories, I liked them the best. I could picture in my mind, her talking to guys online, both knowing what the other wanted. I could envision them coming over, her sucking their hard cocks, then them fucking her pussy and giving her their cum! That night they would go home and maybe fuck their own wife while thinking about mine! I find that to be very hot! Her and I swapped with another couple when we were first married and I loved it, but unfortunately, she said that she didn’t care for it. I think that was because I was having so much fun with the girl that I was with that my wife got jealous, but that’s just what I think. Anyway, I have a huge fantasy of having a mfm with my wife and honestly, I wouldn’t mind finding out that she had or was currently cheating on me, as long as she told me about it. I know that sounds weird, but I would love to walk in and find my wife fucking another guy! I “think” that I would even be ok with her having a bf or just a guy for a regular thing, just to make the mfm more comfortable for her. I’ve hinted about things like that in the past, but I’ve never just come out and said it and I’m really not sure how. If she was good with it then just coming out and saying it would be fine, but you never really know how someone else is going to take something like that. A gf that I had after my 1st marriage said that she had a fantasy of being fucked by 2 guys. I thought that was great, so I told her that I would be happy to help her live out her fantasy and add another guy! She went ape shit and said that I didn’t care about her and that I was just using her for sex!?! We broke up shortly after that. Thus my hesitation now. Any suggestions?