WHOSE BED HAVE YOUR BOOTS BEEN UNDER?

For the next few weeks, my boots, my slippers, High heels and sneakers won't be under my own bed, nor my Old Flames but under my sisters in B.C... Alone

Once a year when I travel to B.C. for three weeks, I truly miss having my lovers warm body next to mine, knowing his own boots are strictly under my bed, next to my slippers.

I wrote a post once about the awkwardness of sleep overs in a new lovers bed for the first time. What may happen during the night and especially the morning after. The same is equally true when one has multiple lovers going all at once..I can not fathom how or why you would do it, myself. Just my opinion..

For me, when I am gone and sleeping in my sister's bed in B.C. missing both my own and my partners beds when we spend days and nights together, there are a lot of intimate moments I miss also with them.

There are so many advantages both body and mental health wise to sleeping with just one special person, partner, lover you have for years, that replaces any and all one night stands, or who is only a Hook-up or casual sex mate.. No matter if you both wake up with bed head, bad breath, restless leg syndrome, snoring, farting, full bladders, dreams/nightmares, sleep talking/walking in my case and having full Night Blindness ( Me).

It is knowing, when you both wake up beside one another in the morning, looking like Shit through it all, yet not caring one damn bit and still loving each other unconditionally with just as much want and desire every single morning after, the intimacy. security, trust and love no matter, is there..

Michael McIntyre, is a comedian I follow, as I love British humour and found a video of his that relates to this subject itself, I and others couples in Monogamous relationships can fully appreciate. Those of us here who have had one-night stands or Casual Fuck Buddies at one time, but are now in committed relationships sleeping with only just one partner, lover, wife, husband and the true intimacies that one will never find elsewhere..