To the boys who teased me: You saw only what stood out to you: my quiet nature, my height, my glasses, my success in school, my body, but you never saw the strength underneath. I hope you grew into men who understand that the way you treat others reflects who you truly are.
To my ex-husband: You may never fully understand the damage you inflicted, but your actions planted deep seeds of fear, doubt, and mistrust that scarred our daughter for life. What you did was not just cruel, it shattered her sense of security in ways she still struggles with today. She deserved better.
To my daughter: You are smarter, more capable, and more extraordinary than you realize. If I could turn back time, I would erase every doubt you ever had. But today, I simply hope you see yourself the way I always have.
To my son: I will never understand the life-altering choice you made. I have accepted that I will never see you again, and though the distance is permanent, my love remains.
To my mom: Your resilience, love, and unwavering dedication shaped who I am. No matter where life takes me, you will forever be in my heart.
To the one whose hugs I adore: I will never forget the day we met. After more than a year of conversations, you walked right up to me without hesitation and gave me the kind of hug that said more than words ever could. Your patience and sincerity means everything, and I am grateful to continue to have you in my life
To myself : Every day is a gift, an unwritten chapter filled with possibility. Tomorrow is unknown, but today is yours to shape. Laugh, love, explore, and savour every moment.
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Every day IS a gift, tomorrow is never promised. Feels like these messages are cathartic.
enjoy the rest of your weekend, hugs my friend!
@resant78 Every day is precious, and embracing the present moment is what truly matters.
Wishing you a wonderful and peaceful weekend!
Hugs can never be underestimated
@JN63JPN I couldn’t agree more 🤗
Beautifully written although I haven't known you that long I have always felt that you were a strong, and special woman. I can't say I know about what it was like for your daughter or son. I can only say is that you gave both all of the love in your heart. That you taught them and helped them in any way you could. I hope your daughter is just like you, and I'm sorry about your son. As for your ex I think you were being gracious in what you said about him. Your mom sounds so much like mine such a wonderful kind, caring, and loving woman.
I do think that you're a very special woman filled with so much love to give. I consider myself to be very fortunate to know you. I agree with you that there is so much power in a hug, and if I ever have the chance I will give you a big bear hug. Never forget that you are such a beautiful woman.
@MrRareity It’s always interesting to see familiar names return to my blog. Thank you for your kind words and support.
The hugger, they make life worthwhile.
Hugs!
@PonyGirl1965 Absolutely! Some hugs just have a way of making everything better. 🤗
Beautiful.
@smartasswoman Thank you. Writing this was a meaningful experience.
Really sweet...I especially liked the comment to the one that hugs and is still in your life. You can't underestimate the power of touch. I'm sorry about your son. And I have similar thoughts about my ex as well and how it's affected my younger daughter. 🤗
@MyNameIsKay Thank you for your kind words. That moment and ongoing connection mean a great deal to me, and I completely agree—the power of touch is undeniable.
I’m sorry that you and your daughter have faced similar struggles. It’s heartbreaking how deep those impacts can go, but I hope she finds strength in knowing she’s not alone.
Some great messages you have shared with your loved ones and others here. I hope your enjoying an awesome weekend..
@Tmptrzz Thank you! I appreciate that. Reflecting on these moments and sharing them has been meaningful. I hope you're having a wonderful weekend as well! 😊
Thank you for the gift of your post.
@superbjversion2 I appreciate your kind words. Writing this was a meaningful experience, and knowing that it resonated with you makes sharing it all the more worthwhile
Seven great messages sent there.
@spunkycumfun: I really appreciate that—thank you!
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