Father’s Day is a poignant occasion—a chance to reminisce about the cherished moments we’ve shared with our fathers. For me, it holds an extra layer of sentimentality because my father’s birthday often coincided with this day.
On Father’s Day, I reflect on the sacrifices my father made for our family—the tireless hours he spent working to provide for us and the unwavering love and support he always offered. But Father’s Day isn’t solely about biological fathers; it’s an opportunity to honor all father figures in our lives. From stepfathers and uncles to grandfathers, coaches, and mentors, these men have shaped us into who we are today.
This year, my dad would have turned ninety-three. It’s hard to believe that he passed away nineteen years ago. When my mother died, he was heartbroken, and he survived only two years without her. In my heart, I imagine them dancing together now.
The pain may fade, but the memories endure forever.
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There are many songs on replay today. All were either favourites of my parents or remind me of them.
Lost my dad 14 years ago just before Father's Day so it always hits kind of hard even as I try to focus on what a great dad my husband is to our children. Spent a lot of time this weekend thinking of random snapshot memories of time I spent with my dad and things that remind me of him - little songs he would sing (though he was not musical), all sorts of fishing adventures (his passion), his stupid worn out t-shirts and cutoffs with NB tennis shoes (looked like a hobo even though he was a suit and tie white collar guy at work). And when I read your post, I thought of another man in my life that was like a father to me for a good part of my career - working elbow to elbow for the last 11 years of his life. In some ways it was easier to talk to him because I never felt the least bit of judgment or disappointment from him where I never felt like I quite lived up to my dad's standards.
@CL_Love Losing a parent is an indescribable loss, and it’s completely normal for Father’s Day to evoke strong emotions. The essence of your dad—the little songs, fishing adventures, and even his hobo-style attire. It’s these unique memories that keep his legacy alive.
And the man who was like a father to you during your career—what a blessing! Sometimes, those connections can be more liberating because they lack the weight of parental expectations. Cherish those moments and the wisdom he shared.
Remember, grief doesn’t have a timeline, and it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions. Your husband’s love and your own parenting journey are also part of this intricate tapestry.
I share that same sentiment Sl.....i have faith that my parents and brother are hanging out together enjoying the feast of the after ness. Thats my only solace~
@jajo696 It’s touching to hear that you share the same sentiment. Sometimes, in our faith and memories, we find solace.
Well said, well felt. Thank you
@crowdy123 Glad you enjoyed it 😊.
Nice tribute
My parents died young. I mean 64 and 70. May they rest in peace.
Thanks
@EnyojLife It’s difficult whenever we lose our parents. Because of the 3 yr difference in their ages, my parents were basically the same age when they died.
Nice tribute to your dad 🤗
Your dad sounds like a good man.
Sacrificing and supporting is how a lot of dad's show their love.
@resant78 My Dad was only 20 and my Mom was 23 when they got married. They both did their best to support my 2 brothers and me.
Great tribute to your father.
This is a wonderful tribute to your father. I sure
hope your enjoying fond memories of him today.
As I am sure he will always be with you.
I hope your enjoying a wonderful weekend..
@Tmptrzz A day doesn’t go by without thinking about both my parents. It’s seems impossible they have been gone so long.
My Dad soon passed after my Mum passed first.
@spunkycumfun It seems a common occurrence when partners have spent a lifetime together. It was really difficult to watch how quickly my Dad faded after losing my Mom.
A wonderful tribute to all dads. 💕
Thank you.
@notoldyetflorida Thank you for stopping by and commenting.
Today I am thinking of my Father and playing some of his favourite songs. Here is what we danced to on my wedding day: