Sometimes in life, there are moments when our paths intersect with someone extraordinary. It feels like the universe conspires to bring us together, and in that instant, we know—it defies mere chance.
Their love is unwavering, their loyalty unyielding. They embrace us with all our flaws, nurturing our growth and pushing us toward our highest potential.
Whether they appear as a confidant, a lover, or a unique blend of both, their absence would create a void impossible to fill. Soulmates do not have to be romantic partners. They can be lifelong friends.
In their presence, our dreams flourish. They celebrate our victories without envy, rejoicing in our happiness as if it were their own. Their desires are simple: to see us thrive, to witness our joy, and to share in life’s journey side by side.
Soulmates require no grand gestures or elaborate promises; their bond transcends mere words, representing a genuine and everlasting connection.
What are your thoughts on soulmates? Have you ever encountered someone who felt like a soulmate to you?
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While I’ve never been with anybody who’d I’d consider a soulmate, I know people whose partner is their soulmate.
But, profiles saying that they’re looking for a soulmate gives me the heebie jeebies
@JN63JPN Agree. We have all seen criticism of a profile or comments saying this isn’t ‘xxxxx’ (insert the name of any well-known traditional dating site’
I thought they might have been but it was just an illusion.
@Paulxx001 Undoubtedly, it is challenging when both individuals do not share the belief that they have found their soulmate.
@sexyldy1000
I'm going to change my vote to — possibly, I think so.
I recently watched "The Fall Guy," and if I were a woman in my thirties living in L.A., Ryan Gosling would definitely be my soul mate.
Have you seen that guy?
FFS... Is he HOT or what? 🔥💕😎
@Paulxx001 I saw that movie. The storyline was weak, stunts were great. However, Ryan looked 🔥, even better than in Barbie. He is untouchable….apparently happily married and he is Canadian!
@sexyldy1000
I like every movie he's been in. He's easy on the eyes and has a great sense of humour.
Are bromances healthy? 🤔 😂
A soulmate sounds wonderful. I would love to meet just one person who shows respect and acceptance. That seems impossible anymore.
Yeah, I'm a bummer.
@PonyGirl1965 It’s natural to desire such a connection, especially in a world where genuine connections can feel scarce.
Sometimes it feels like everyone is too busy or too guarded to truly connect. You’re not alone in feeling this way. Many people share similar sentiments.
You are the furthest thing from a bummer! Perhaps one day, you’ll find that soulmate you feel appreciates you for the awesome person that you are!
Lovely PonyGirl, do not give up on meeting a soul-mate. Took me till I was 68 to meet Diane and we truly are soul-mates. We are totally accepting of who the other person is and never run out of things to talk about. May you find yours at a younger age than I did. Also remember they may not be a romantic partner but just a best friend. Of course, it is better when they are both.
Sending you big naked encouraging hugs.
Anything I've read on soulmates, essentially tells me that I have to believe in reincarnation, too. Together through the ages, yada, yada. So, no, I don't believe in soul mates and yet ...
My husband and I worked at the same place, at the same time - twice, but never met. If we had met either of those times, we would probably not have married. I was not emotionally ready for a commitment then. Eventually, we met on a blind date, set up by mutual friends. The rest is history so perhaps I'm wrong about soul mates. Though I find it easier to believe in destiny.
@superbjversion2 Your story with your husband is a testament to the unpredictable twists and turns that destiny can take.
While the concept of “soulmates” can evoke various interpretations, it’s not necessarily tied to reincarnation. Some believe in soulmates as eternal companions who traverse lifetimes together, while others see them as serendipitous encounters in a single lifetime. Your perspective is valid—soulmates need not be preordained; they can emerge from chance meetings, like your blind date.
Emotional readiness plays a crucial role in our life choices. Had you met during those earlier instances, perhaps the timing wouldn’t have been right. But destiny intervened, orchestrating that blind date, and the rest truly became history.
So, whether we call it soulmates or destiny, what matters most is the connection—the shared laughter, the understanding glances, and the love that blossomed.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!
I had one like it. Perfect match.
First time it lasted year, outside factors made it hard. After two years we got second chance and it was better than the first time. Lasted for two great years than we got separated by war and Atlantic.
I love my wife but I still yearn for that lost one. At end I consider myself lucky to had those moments.
@EnyojLife Life is a tapestry woven with threads of love, loss, and memories. Your story resonates with the ebb and flow of human experience—the delicate balance between what we have and what we’ve lost.
I do not believe that one can have or meet only ONE soul-mate in their lives. I have been lucky enough to meet Diane I think we are truly soul-mates.
@justskin1 I appreciate your perspective!
It’s true that soulmates don’t always fit into a neat, singular box. Sometimes, we encounter multiple soul connections throughout our lives—each leaving a lasting impact.
Diane is a special person, and perhaps your souls are indeed intertwined. Cherish that beautiful connection!
When I read "they are not perfect, but they are perfect for you", I thought of my husband. Are there areas he could be more closely my soulmate? Sure. We have less interests in common than I wish and we see the world in quite different ways. But I can't imagine sharing my life with someone else.
@CL_Love Thank you for sharing your perspective. While soulmates may not fit a perfect mould, your unique connection with your husband transcends mere interests or viewpoints. Cherish that bond—it’s what makes your relationship truly special.
There are people that I just love and can't imagine my life without them.
I think my assumption is that "soul mates" are supposed to be life long partners/lovers. But I may have that definition wrong.
@resant78 The concept of “soul mates” doesn’t necessarily imply romantic partners. Soul mates can be anyone with whom we share a deep, unbreakable bond—a friend, a family member, or even a mentor. These connections enrich our lives and make them more meaningful. So, your definition isn’t wrong at all! 😊
I think I've had a couple of soulmates but stupidly I allowed the relationships to die.
@spunkycumfun Sometimes we don’t know what had until it’s gone.
I never understood this concept before meeting my current wife. Now I understand it completely because she is without a doubt my soulmate and the true love of my life. I never knew true love before her and now I know what that actually feels like. It is crazy how you can go so long without that and some people never experience it.
@midgaheat There can be a variety of reasons why people are willing to ‘settle’ for something less. I know a few people who weren’t willing to do so and ultimately found their soulmate much later in life. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experience. Wishing you continued happiness.
I agree with you here, as I am married to my
soul mate. Sometimes when we say things
we say the same thing at the same time.
There is no greater feeling than to be able
to find someone that is your soul mate. I
wish that for everyone.
I hope your enjoying a terrific Tuesday..
@Tmptrzz Thank you for confirming it’s possible to have a successful relationship with your soulmate. I know you work hard at maintaining it.
If I were to be honest, I'd say my longtime women friends meet this description more than any of the men who have been in my life romantically.
@smartasswoman I think many women develop a sisterhood in which they can confide, support and sustain one another without the added pressure of it being a romantic relationship.
It started me remembering so I forgot to say great post. Thanks
@EnyojLife As a blogger, there’s fulfillment in evoking memories that prompt a response. Thank you for your acknowledgment.
@sexyldy1000
That’s true. Thank you for your posts that do exactly that.